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Psychotic Crush Thankx for your comment..and I decided that I will move on....[InquistiveOne7] 2008-12-01 10:21:26

Psychotic Crush Not to come off as super bitch, but I'm pretty sure he thinks you're crazy and probably won't date you (unless he's into crazy chicks).  I mean if you're actin up when y'all not even friends, I can put money on the fact it'd be worse if you dated even though you swear you won't.  No dude wants a girl sweatin him like that. 

My advice is to move on cause ya kinda blew it with this one. 

[sarcastra]
2008-12-01 00:36:20

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 5 }... I want more!!!!! lol!![inkdancer] 2008-11-28 11:00:20

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 4 }... well this is the third comment hahaha[HeiAJS] 2008-11-28 00:56:11

Love is an addiction Thankx...read my other entries, you might like them...[InquistiveOne7] 2008-11-28 00:26:16

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 4 }... pyromaniacBunny,

lol...no not at all...I DO NOT APPROVE OF THAT.....[InquistiveOne7]
2008-11-28 00:25:31

Love is an addiction

Oh Wow thats really good!! You're an excellent writer!

Tasha ¢¾

[CroatianBrat]
2008-11-28 00:17:34

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 4 }... Daddy? Is this some kind of incest/pedophilia story?[pyromaniacBunny] 2008-11-27 23:48:00

Is it a Black thing??? haha i like it! and i totally agree!! I wish i could have voted for this election because i totally would have gone for Obama!! I have liked him from the beginning and i feel that he will be a greatttt president! Lets hope! [CroatianBrat] 2008-11-12 21:02:45

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 4 }... Oh please  write more!!!!!!!!!!!![inkdancer] 2008-11-10 16:33:32

Hello World How about a new story. I love your stories!!![inkdancer] 2008-11-09 09:32:20

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 3 }... What kind of crack is everyone smoking. This is the worse story, I cant even begin to tell you whats wrong with this. How the hell would you forget to put your clothes back on and apparently you are second cause he prob would not leave his wife for you and that makes you the mistress but hey silver aint that bad right? LMAO Mr. Green
[XMetalSirenX]
2008-10-15 10:33:34

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 3 }... OK, so I've read all 3 pieces so far and I'm going to give a critique from one black female writer to another.  You can take it or leave it because it's honestly not going to be pretty.

I didn't know an ellipsis was some form of super punctuation that allows you negate all rules of grammar.  Plot aside, this makes any piece difficult to take seriously.  Unless you're e e cummings, I would strongly suggest using actual punctuation in the next entry.

I can kinda see where you're going with this, but I wish there was more substance to the characters.  Yeah, I know the piece is pretty much about s..x, but you'd be surprised to what can be done in pages.  Have you read anything by Zane?  Maybe you should pick up something by her as a guide.

I'm not saying you should stop writing, I just wish you would put a bit more effort into it. 



[MissEducated]
2008-10-15 10:11:56

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man*

xTW33T3Yx] ,

Thanks for your entry but i was not saying assume things about your man...I'm saying don't outright question him if you do not have physical proof...when you assume you make an ass out your self....we all heard that many of times....i appreciate your entry because not everyone is going to agree...i did not obtain a degree in relationships therefore what i have written is my opinions as well...

[InquistiveOne7]
2008-10-13 11:40:28

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 3 }... I really like it! It's very dramatic and romantic.[inkdancer] 2008-10-12 15:37:45

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 3 }... omg 2nd to no one is right,
what a nasty jerk!!!![justbreathe537]
2008-10-12 14:50:16

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }... Okay we have 7 new comments....II am writing now...please be patient....[InquistiveOne7] 2008-10-12 13:17:31

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }... oh god please continue[xxxbaby] 2008-10-12 13:16:32

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }... Please continue!!![inkdancer] 2008-10-12 07:18:02

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }... and continue again >!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[MidoriGirl]
2008-10-11 21:54:34

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }...

Very Nice!!  Check my diary to see if you want access to my "pantylover" diary.  You must be 18 or older to read it.

Take care.

[panman]
2008-10-11 21:52:36

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }... so far so good.  Keep it going!  Check out my diary if your interested.

Matt-

[sexmind]
2008-10-11 21:50:28

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 2 }... OMGGGGGGGGGGGGG
keep telling the storyyy
funny the song was "I'am a dog!"
what a jerk!!!![justbreathe537]
2008-10-11 21:48:37

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 1 }... That doesn't count as 5 because you commented twice but I will continue....i'm writing now...be patient....Very Happy[InquistiveOne7] 2008-10-11 21:31:05

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 1 }... CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!CONTINUE!!!!!!SmileSmileSmile
[MidoriGirl]
2008-10-11 21:29:21

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 1 }... finish it!!![writing4me] 2008-10-11 21:13:59

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 1 }...
ahh yeah pretty sure you should continue now![MidoriGirl]
2008-10-11 21:09:50

{{{ Exotic }}} Story { 1 }...

pleassssse finish!

im so wet.

[xxxbaby]
2008-10-11 20:36:54

* Him * MAJOR cute poem!!! totally true... <3[tears888] 2008-10-11 20:09:29

My Name is On the LIST!!! Thats really cute :)

~BHSsweetheart~

[BHSsweetheart]
2008-09-27 14:32:48

{{{ Friends }}}

Lol, my name is Natasha.

Just thought I found that interesting. lol

[CroatianBrat]
2008-09-24 22:01:28

"Have your cake and eat it too!?" I guess it all depends on what makes you and your boy friend feel comfortable. For me I like to compare so I would say ok well I want to go hang out with this guy, but would I like it if my boy friend went to hang out with only of his friends that are girls. Idk personally I don't like my boy friend to flirt with other girls I hate that. So I wouldn't want to do that to him. I'm not saying thats right or wrong for anyone else thats just how I feel. [inkdancer] 2008-09-04 13:06:18

"Have your cake and eat it too!?" Yeah! In fact a little helpless flirting never hurt anything, it just gets guys to notice what they have. Of course you do have to keep yourself in check. I did this with my fiance' we both worked in a bar so he would see me flirt with people all the time, and it would make him jealous a bit but I would definitely see the returns in the sex afterwards. It reminds them how hot you are, and how lucky they are to have you. [exiez] 2008-09-04 10:45:44

"Have your cake and eat it too!?" I guess not..as long as you don't get mad if your bf flirts with another girl. Its only fair. Just don't get too carried away of course.[caffeinefree] 2008-09-04 10:32:34

Miss {{{Black}}} and {{{Gold}}} pageant Thankx a lot[InquistiveOne7] 2008-09-01 14:12:41

Miss {{{Black}}} and {{{Gold}}} pageant good luck to you. sure the poem will b great. Mr. Green[MrsDetroit] 2008-09-01 13:50:59

{{{ He }}} is leaving... Well, congratulations to him! And, just try, try, try your best to keep in touch with him.[cheryl12] 2008-08-19 20:15:15

Is it {* MY *} Fault??? one day you wil get through all
the pain,hurt, depression
that boy caused you.
one day you ill be finshed.
and one day you will stand tall
and nothing wil bring you down.
for you i hope that one day
comes soon.

[Manuela]
2008-08-11 21:04:57

Is it {* MY *} Fault??? this is very touching. if its true im proud of her[MrsDetroit] 2008-08-11 20:42:20

Is it {* MY *} Fault??? You asked me what entry I liked, the previous one to this one. I haven't read your others yet but I will when I get some free time ^.^

 Keep writing and being cool!
Evil or Very MadImpyTwisted Evil

[ImpyChaos]
2008-08-11 19:57:12

Is it {* MY *} Fault???

Poor girl

Mikal

P.S. yes I added you as one of my favourites cuz YOU ROCK! I can relate to you and you also seem very mature

[Mikal]
2008-08-11 07:44:24

I'm {* Sorry *} for not ... I {* Ask *} that You I really like this^^^[inkdancer] 2008-08-10 20:27:19

I'm {* Sorry *} for not ... I {* Ask *} that You AWwwwwww :D [Mikal] 2008-08-10 17:07:51

UPDATE on I'm {* THROUGH *} You're right thats the way its supposed to be. [inkdancer] 2008-08-08 16:59:56

UPDATE on I'm {* THROUGH *} AWW thats cute!

~BHSsweetheart~

[BHSsweetheart]
2008-08-08 16:17:27

I'm {* THROUGH *} I'll be praying for you. xoxoxo Everything is going to be alright.[inkdancer] 2008-08-07 23:34:27

I'm {* THROUGH *} Thankx[InquistiveOne7] 2008-08-07 21:51:11

I'm {* THROUGH *}

I will pray for you!
~Kate

[MiniSemiSweet]
2008-08-07 21:48:11

Anal Sex ?!?!?!?!

I really liked your bulimic one!

how did you know i added you to my faves?

I cant figure that out! lol

Luvs.

Natasha

[CroatianBrat]
2008-08-07 12:14:19

Anal Sex ?!?!?!?! wow, thats a  pretty impressive entry....
xdarcy

[dardy]
2008-08-05 14:00:15

I'm {Bulimic} I would suggest confiding in someone that you trust....maybe a parent, teacher, friend, adult friend but SOMEONE.....there is help and it CAN be STOPPED...don't give up[InquistiveOne7] 2008-08-05 13:55:27

I'm {Bulimic}
u asked me to read this so i did... its sad (sorry to point out  the obvious) but it reminds me of me (sadder)...

i've read an autobiography about a woman who sufered from EDs since she was 9... and like this it scared me to death - made me realize how dangerous it is... and makes me realize that it's simply WRONG... but yet i do it... it like a ghost inside me but one that has complete control - it's something i can't fight...

xx foodbloodysux
[foodbloodysux]
2008-08-05 13:39:11

Anal Sex ?!?!?!?! Yea I did all that and to no prevail Smile[InquistiveOne7] 2008-08-05 13:02:39

A Lovely Poem I like this poem. Its deep.
"No one can melt my heart like yo do
Simply by holding my hand."
cute [xMySoCalledLife]
2008-08-05 12:58:26

Anal Sex ?!?!?!?! lol love it. made me laugh.
But I bet it does hurt. I was told u should take it slow, ease into it, have KY and have fun. HAH :]
<3[xMySoCalledLife]
2008-08-05 12:55:48

I'm {Bulimic} Lildarkshadow....You can STOP...this story is not my story...its many girls stories that binge and purge and DO NOT make it...since you wrote on my entry u are STILL ALIVE....so there is hope and where there is hope there is a way...go to God, your parents, siblings, ur best friend, fav teacher, or anyone that you trust and THEY WILL help you...DON'T GIVE UP!!![InquistiveOne7] 2008-08-04 17:30:06

I'm {Bulimic} i wish i could stop. this thing, this horrible cycle of binging and purging. i dont think i have a big enough problem to go to someone but i wish i had the willpower to stop like i did when i started[lildarkshadow] 2008-08-04 15:47:59

I'm {Bulimic} i'm happy for you - and i know that sounds stupid after reading ur entry but i am because you've realized... and ur trying to stop and even more because i honestly believe you will make it through...

my best wishes

xx foodbloodysux

[foodbloodysux]
2008-08-04 15:08:49

I need {{YOUR}} help!! I have done anal with my husband and I get pleasure from it. Initially it does hurt, the key is lots of lube and take it slow. DON'T RUSH IT. I haven't ever actually been constipated from it but I am sore the next day. I mean you know what you did the night before. Going to the bathroom is a little uncomfortable for a day or too but not too bad. Have you used hands there? Do a 69 and have him start with one finger and go from there to see if you like that. If you do go as far as you want. If you don't, at least you know.[Alliesheart] 2008-08-03 11:21:29

I'm {Bulimic}

You'll get through it though, right?
You need to focus your mind
Your body is calling out for you to help it
Eat small portions to start off with and gradually get bigger portions
You'll be able to make it I know it
God bless you

My prayers are with you xx

[hcutting]
2008-08-03 11:09:20

I'm {Bulimic} oh dear. i hope you get well!
[gumDROP]
2008-08-02 01:21:26

I'm {Bulimic} Thankx for your comment...but ppl need to hear YOUR TESTIMONY....some ppl do not recover like you and you need to entil that in these young girls mind.....thankx again[InquistiveOne7] 2008-08-01 12:02:08

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!! wow...thank u for this..
i just realized...
how dissappointing it is to read abt
these 14-15 yr olds losing virginity, anal sex..
tsk tsk... Confused

"what wld jesus do?!" ..HAH JK.

but seriously....how f***in sad, that these
youngsters
doing these acts..
no wonder the age of puberty is goin lower and lower..

next thing u know...you'll see 6 yr olds tryin to get laid..
and 8 yr olds complainin how they havent gotten laid
in...years. -.-

just...sad

~cluelesslycool

[cluelesslycool]
2008-08-01 02:01:02

I'm {Bulimic} this is what people need to hear, im a recovering anorexia bulimic and i find it so frustrating that theres no gettin into the people who r still suffering, i wish i cud just help them but i understand why they dont want help i understand that they wont get help unless they admit they have a problem and that takes alot of courege coz most of them dont want to admit that as they fear if they do admit it then they will get fat, but thats not what its about just admitting is dont mean ul get fat it means u know u have a problem and can hopfully get urself healthy again. People need to hear ur stories coz it really hits home xx[bettyboop19] 2008-07-31 11:16:17

I'm {Bulimic} To both of ya'll I love to write...i write short stories {fiction or non}, poetry and things like that....I wrote this entry because how I read a young girl's entry how she was PROUD to see her spine and ribs..and she STILL wanted to loose weight....that just touched me and the message through this entry is that GIRLS/WOMEN do NOT need to follow these supermodels to look pretty.....they are not starving themselves to look that way...they have MONEY to afford nutrionists to help and mold them in the shape that you see.....WE are beautiful the way we are...we DON'T need to change for NOONE....[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-31 08:37:05

I'm {Bulimic} I liked this entry, and i guess it isn't true? i don't really get it....
but i really like reading about that kind of stuff.
because i used to be that way...that's all XD

[LifesAdream]
2008-07-30 23:10:13

I'm {Bulimic}

Well, I just realised that this entry is actually just fiction so I feel rather stupid now.

I apologise sincerely about my previous comment and hope I did not offend you in anyway.

However I would like my previous comment to be instead directed to all the girls & guys who actually are bulimic/anorexic.

- Miss Pandora

[MissPandora]
2008-07-30 18:59:09

I'm {Bulimic}

Excuse me?

Pull yourself together, girl!

There are children starving in Africa and other developing countries because they are too poor to afford basic nutrition or their country is plagued with famine. And here you are...

You have no disease. If you want to know about disease, type HIV/AIDs or cancer into google!

*sigh*

Now, I don't mean to sound harsh but it just frustrates me when i hear about beautiful young girls who are full of life hurting themselves like this. You can overcome this so hurry up and get better or ....adl;fja;fgkl;....I will be so mad!

Best wishes and all the luck.

- Miss Pandora

[MissPandora]
2008-07-30 18:33:58

I'm {Bulimic} Inkdancer,
You must have a nice lil shape to be 5'3 and 102 lbs.....but that's good as long as your healthy that is the best....DON'T starve yourself or MAKE yourself throw up juss to be that small....[InquistiveOne7]
2008-07-30 18:23:41

I'm {Bulimic} wow you really scared me for a second there. I'm glad its just a story. I'm 102 but I'm only 5' 3. I don't know just wanted to throw that out there.[inkdancer] 2008-07-30 17:12:33

I'm {Bulimic} Thankx for the advice but the character in this story does not apply to me....there are many girls like this and they are not fortunate like you are to walk away....some die due to it....share your testimony cuz God delivered you....[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-30 13:08:15

I'm {Bulimic} wow.
i hope everything goes well and you're healthy again someday.
this same exact thing happened to me but i guess i can't say i completely understand because i let it go before it became an obsession. i did it for like 3-4 months though...
but i really hope you get better. good luck.

[LifesAdream]
2008-07-30 12:53:15

I {{Reminisce}} How.... Very well done, it has a great rhythm to it.  It reminds me of being single again........[jmf1968] 2008-07-30 11:33:36

I'm {Bulimic} This is NOT about me....this is about the girls out there that thinks like this....[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-30 11:24:26

I'm {Bulimic} I guess its time for you to stop then.[caffeinefree] 2008-07-30 11:22:56

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man* AMEN TO THAT![awsmnss24] 2008-07-30 11:10:50

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!!
  1. How old are you  
  2. What is your gender M 
  3. What age did you lose your virginity 15 
  4. Have you tried anal sex No 
  5. How old were youQuestion
  6. Would you recommend it to someone elseQuestion Why or why notQuestion
  7. Do you prefer oral or sex Y Why or why not  More intimate 
  8. Do you masturbate Yes 
  9. How often Everyday, sometimes multiple times per day 
  10. Do you shave {downstairs}  OF COURSE!
[pantylover]
2008-07-29 12:16:52

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!!
  1. How old are you? 16
  2. What is your gender? Female
  3. What age did you lose your virginity? 14
  4. Have you tried anal sex? Nope and not in a hurry to!
  5. How old were you?-----
  6. Would you recommend it to someone else?Why or why not?I wouldnt incourage it!
  7. Do you prefer oral or sex? Why or why not? sex I just think its better.
  8. Do you masturbate? yes
  9. How often? when I feel like it!
  10. Do you shave {downstairs}?yes, completely!
[SexySausage]
2008-07-28 14:57:32

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!! How old are you: 13

What is your gender: F

What age did you lose your virginity: Not saying

Have you tried anal sex: ummm, no

How old were you: N/A

Would you recommend it to some  one else, Why or why not: N/A

Do you perfer oral or sex: Not saying

Do you masturbate: no =P

How often: N/A

Do you shave {downstairs}: yes

[Trying2StayAfloat]
2008-07-28 14:35:05

I {{Reminisce}} How.... Thankx that means a lot.... I love to write so you will be seein MORE...i'm glad I have viewers[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-28 14:20:26

I {{Reminisce}} How....

wow, i adore this poem!
like seriously, i wish i could say i wrote it!
very well done.
Smile

VERY WELL DONE!

[italiansecret]
2008-07-28 14:14:50

I {{Reminisce}} How.... Sounds like me and my boy friend! lol!![inkdancer] 2008-07-27 20:04:15

I'm {{OVER}} Men This is a beautiful entry!![inkdancer] 2008-07-25 19:45:52

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man* I'm talking about humans...but if your man put material things or animals before you then you need to talk with him about it.....tell him how u feel...don't sugarcoat anything[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-25 16:32:30

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man* what if you man's best friend is his dog, cat, pet iguana, or parrot?[Onwardandupward] 2008-07-25 16:30:23

I'm {{OVER}} Men

no problem

God Bless

[awsmnss24]
2008-07-25 16:27:17

I'm {{OVER}} Men Thank You for the song[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-25 16:25:24

I'm {{OVER}} Men This is a christian song that really spoke to me and it has to do with your situation i hope it helps you

its by Casting Crowns


She is running
A hundred miles an hour in the wrong direction
She is trying
But the canyon's ever widening
In the depths of her cold heart
So she sets out on another misadventure just to find
She's another two years older
And she's three more steps behind

Does anybody hear her? Can anybody see?
Or does anybody even know she's going down today
Under the shadow of our steeple
With all the lost and lonely people
Searching for the hope that's tucked away in you and me
Does anybody hear her? Can anybody see?

She is yearning
For shelter and affection
That she never found at home
She is searching
For a hero to ride in
To ride in and save the day
And in walks her prince charming
And he knows just what to say
Momentary lapse of reason
And she gives herself away

Does anybody hear her? Can anybody see?
Or does anybody even know she's going down today
Under the shadow of our steeple
With all the lost and lonely people
Searching for the hope that's tucked away in you and me
Does anybody hear her? Can anybody see?

If judgment looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
And we've never even met her

If judgment looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
And we've never even met her

If Judgement looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
And we've never even met her

Never even met her
(Never Even Met her)

(OHHHHH)Does anybody hear her? Does anybody see?
Or does anybody even know she's going down today
Under the shadow of our steeple
With all the lost and lonely people
Searching for the hope that's tucked away in you and me

Does anybody hear her? (Does anybody hear her?) Does anybody see? (Does anybody See?)
Does anybody even know she's going down today?
Under the shadow of our steeple (shadow of her steeple)
With all the lost and lonely people (Lost and Lonely people)
Searching for the hope that's tucked away in you and me
Does anybody hear her? Does anybody see?

He is running a hundred miles an hour in the wrong direction
[awsmnss24]
2008-07-25 16:17:36

Guys {GoInG} soft So you are sayin there is a possibility that the guy could have been turned off???[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-25 12:22:54

Guys {GoInG} soft it is about 75 percent in our control, we have the power to think about things that arouse us, but when we get deep in thought turned off or are nervous we have a harder time keeping it going. [EndOfTheRoad] 2008-07-25 11:54:02

Guys {GoInG} soft idk my boy friend controls it really well. I don't really know though. I'm just saying he doesn't go soft very easily.[inkdancer] 2008-07-25 11:07:30

Guys {GoInG} soft As a guy, there is no way to completely control either the up or down of it.  I can attest, there have been times when fooling around that I have been completely into it and feeling awesome, and don't get the response I'm looking for, and sometimes, out of the blue, here he comes for no reason I can find.  Most of the time it is predictable, and you can definitely try to influence him, but think about it like a pet, no matter how much you try to get it to go inside, sometimes it just refuses to, and other times all you have to do is open the door.  Ok, that probably wasn't the best analogy, but suffice it to say that guys have about 75% control, and the other 25% it has a mind of it's own.[jmf1968] 2008-07-25 11:04:10

Guys {GoInG} soft Thankx it did[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-25 10:11:46

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!!
  1. How old are youQuestion
    ::19::
  2. What is your genderQuestion
    ::Female::
  3. What age did you lose your virginityQuestion
    ::18::
  4. Have you tried anal sexQuestion
    ::No, but I think my guy would like to::
  5. How old were youQuestion
    ::N/A::
  6. Would you recommend it to someone elseQuestion Why or why notQuestion
    ::Yes and no. I hear it can cause problems if done too roughly::
  7. Do you prefer oral or sexQuestion Why or why notQuestion
    ::LOVE it. Him on me, me on him. It's just sooooo nice::
  8. Do you masturbateQuestion
    ::Rarely now::
  9. How oftenQuestion
    ::Once a month (?)::
  10. Do you shave {downstairs}Question
    ::Trim, a bit of shaving. I prefer the natural vibe::
[ssuchsweetsorrow]
2008-07-25 10:02:16

Guys {GoInG} soft

*laughs*

I loved your phrasing on this entry.

Uhm...in my experience (I'm a chick), it just happens sometimes. I asked my boyfriend about it, and he told me it's not really controllable unless he puts effort into thinking about something gross. But he also told me that sometimes it just happens; not because he's turned off by me, but because he relaxes. Other times he gets harder when going down on me, and sometimes it deflates him.

I think it just depends on his mindframe: the more lovey he's feeling, the easier it is for his mind to leave the topic of sex and cuddle (thus--KAPOW--loss of erection :P). I choose to take it as a compliment. Heh.

I know, it's kind of disappointing when it happends.
          Actually, it's probably pretty embarrassing for some guys. >_<

Hope that helped. :)

[ssuchsweetsorrow]
2008-07-25 09:54:04

I'm {{Depending}} on YOU ok I've read this and I will give you something later right now I have to go get ready I'm going out to lunch. xoxoxo[inkdancer] 2008-07-24 10:18:43

I'm {{Depending}} on YOU

just write not all of it has to be good some times u dont need a topic just let your words cary the story. dont think ramble on the best things come spontanious.

[EndOfTheRoad]
2008-07-24 10:05:18

MiXed EmOtiOns I actually added you cause I read all of your entrys and loved them. Keep up the writing I love to read it!! xoxoxo[inkdancer] 2008-07-24 09:54:36

Why Me (his view)sometimes we find one we never wanna let go of.sometimes when we look in there eyes we see more pain in them then us. to help the one whos hurting we must take a beating ourself. we carry u through the endless rose bush just so u can be above the horison to smell its beauty.(your view) u dont think u deserve him, he does to much for you and u dont think u could be on his level, he dosent want anythin in return and that bothers you. he gives in and is to nice. the fairy tale prince u wanted u got but it dosent fit on the level its to perfect for the way u are.[EndOfTheRoad] 2008-07-23 15:29:44

A Quickie good story... fun to read.  Thanks!
[zeiss]
2008-07-23 15:20:30

Guys are unbelieveable don't sweat it ... that guy is an f'ing retard.  just move on you'll find a man worth your time one day.
[zeiss]
2008-07-23 15:15:36

Today is My B-Day happy late b day[EndOfTheRoad] 2008-07-23 15:13:34

I need {{YOUR}} help!! i used to go on long trips with my cousin and my girl would be left home alone she used to think masturbating was roung. one day i brought home a dildo for her and said she would never use it because it was the feeling of me she wanted. well one day she called me and asked if she could try it i guess she felt embarassed. i was never insecure cause i knew from experience masturbating was a release of tension. so i told her to go ahead have fun, she loved it. point is try it go slow use lube, a man is a feeling if u cant wait start without him.[EndOfTheRoad] 2008-07-23 14:58:57

A Quickie

love and sex, desire and emotion. is to feel good without love roung

[EndOfTheRoad]
2008-07-23 14:50:00

Sizes that's amazing. i absolutely agree 100% Smile[rrawrrx3] 2008-07-23 14:21:29

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!! How old are you - 16
What is your gender - Female
What age did you lose your virginity - 15
Have you tried anal sex - Yes
How old were you - 15 lol
Would you recommend it to someone else Why or why not - Probably not because "normal" sex is way better. Plus ive had enough to last me a lifetime. Try it, you might love it but just be prepared for pain the first few times and make sure you have lots of luberication.
Do you prefer oral or sex Why or why not - Oral but only cause ive had crap sex.
Do you masturbate - Hell yes.
How often - Alot.
Do you shave {downstairs} - Of corse :) xxx[LoveMex]
2008-07-23 14:20:58

Please take this {interesting} QUIZ!!!

1:21

2:male

3:14

4:no

5:?

6:?

7:sex

8:yes

9:more than i should

10:not bare just trimed everyday

[EndOfTheRoad]
2008-07-23 14:20:48

A Lovely Poem very Good !!!![southernfire] 2008-07-21 12:00:02

A Lovely Poem All I can say is that is AWESOME....I really did enjoy reading it...gr8 job[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-21 11:24:38

A Lovely Poem

Seriously awesome!

What do you think of this:

Awesome:

So close and yet so far,
Wanting to hold her dear,
When I go to bed at night,
Something will happen, I fear.

Awesome,
Completely and utterly awesome;
I’m yours forever more,
Not bound by any rules or laws,
Because love is free,
It was made for you and me.
Awesome.

I’d reassure you ‘til you were sure,
I’d stare into your eyes forever more,
I’d love you ‘til the end of the earth,
Because love is a never-ending curse.

Awesome,
Completely and utterly awesome;
I’m yours forever more,
Not bound by any rules or laws,
Because love is free,
It was made for you and me.
Awesome.

[Z1mlock]
2008-07-21 10:50:47

A Lovely Poem Wow! This was REALLY good! ^^ I love it!!![Annasaur] 2008-07-21 09:53:51

A Quickie WoOoOoOw u so silly...lol[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-20 18:36:41

Sizes Thank you, I appreciate it...[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-20 18:35:23

Sizes Wise words, wish more Girls and guys would think like that.

InnocentDreams xoxo

[InnocentDreams]
2008-07-20 18:26:37

Guys are unbelieveable Thank you and I'mma do juss that[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-19 17:46:27

Guys are unbelieveable Of course you are correct and this guy is just a clueless bonehead. What makes him the expert about a girl's equipment? I suppose he has had so many girls that he knows everything about human anatomy and physiology.

The fact is that the female genitals are well designed to do what nature intended. In this case that is to provide arousal for the male, as well as allowing for intense pleasure for the girl.

There are just alot of "myths" circulating that boys invent that have absolutely no basis in reality. And this is one of them. You did your research on this and you have the facts, so the best thing to do is to ignore the loser and find some better dudes to hang around with.

~SA



[sexualadvisor]
2008-07-19 17:30:20

I need {{YOUR}} help!! Thankx I really appreciate that.  You are very helpful[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-17 10:55:22

I need {{YOUR}} help!! I don't know any thing about sex toys. I guess it wouldn't hurt you to try it. Anal sex...I did it once. It was very painful. Of course we didn't use any lubricant (this was not with my husband...I did this with an ex), so that was a bad idea. I don't know...I wouldn't do it again. Your butt is not place for a penis. You might enjoy it, but I can't imagine why a girl would. If you do do it, make sure you use a condom and use plenty of lubricant cause it will hurt. He needs to insert his fingers first to relax it some and kind of get is used to it...then insert very slowly...and be very careful. It will still hurt probably the first few times. I didn't know all this the only one time I did it...maybe thats why I hated it.[caffeinefree] 2008-07-17 10:48:43

Today is My B-Day Happy Birthdayyy [tiffy09] 2008-07-17 10:12:38

Today is My B-Day Awww thankx so much ;-}[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-17 08:47:23

Today is My B-Day

Hunny I know how this feels because I had a "best friend" for 14 years and at some point she acted as if it were sb else!!Needless to say that we are not speaking anymore!

Well,u just try to relax,if she doesn't want u back,then so be it.She doesn't deserve u anyway!

And have an absolutely happy birthday!

Take care and don't be sad!

Kiss u,

Olya!

[Olya]
2008-07-17 08:41:14

Valentine's Day Last time I checked the nationwide calendar Valentine's Day is on Febuary 14th.  This, however, is a poem that I had so I decided to post it on July 14th.[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-14 16:43:34

Valentine's Day um...isn't valentine's on feb 14?[miaM] 2008-07-14 15:48:34

Anti-Family Reunion Family reunions are weird. I know. I have a child prodigy cousin, the leading cause of inferiority complexes. Take care.[superspeller] 2008-07-13 10:29:08

Anti-Family Reunion Indeed. Most families shoudl spare their children of such...crude tradition. I feel for you. I come from a mixed background. We used to have these family reunions. Then we quit after the stabbing. I would say "lol" but I can't really do it.
[LeBibi]
2008-07-13 10:24:25

True Friends ggez. a best friend would do to your party no matter what! and that is reallly a stupid reason![WintersFire] 2008-07-12 17:19:44

Kissing Cousins i think you should just say i dont like you like that i just want to be your friend [pinky1000] 2008-07-11 11:14:42

Kissing Cousins Thankx for the advice[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-11 10:49:13

Kissing Cousins Just tell him. Be straight up about it. DOn't beat around the bush, because the sooner he knows how you feel, the easier everything will be.
[BURNttOAStNESS]
2008-07-11 10:44:16

Why Me

i think that would be a good idea:)

-peyton.<3

[JusTCaLLMePeyton]
2008-07-11 09:58:17

For the Love of Money thanks for the comment.  i don't think i can be curages enough to ask him how he feels. i mean if he is just being flirty everything will then become ocward and silent. Embarassed[lil_fun] 2008-07-09 20:47:11

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man* hey thanx for leaving a comment. i bet its gonna help me a lot!!!! also i really do like your advises.[luvholic] 2008-07-08 19:48:16

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man* Thankx, I would love to have a man's input on this.

Wow you cook that's gr8, more guys need to know how to....lol[InquistiveOne7]
2008-07-08 14:26:27

High School Crush There are far worse things than suicide love. I was only giving you the opportunity to hear the rest of the story. I have been through a lot, yes, but nothing that can't be overcome.
As far as resulting to such...I have my own opinions on such.

[LeBibi]
2008-07-08 14:24:04

11 {{ Ways }} on How to {{ Keep }} a *Man* I wish more women would read this.  Really accurate (coming from a guy) except that I cook for myself (and I think I'm pretty good at it).  Loved the entry, thanks[jmf1968] 2008-07-08 14:20:35

High School Crush I wanted to respond to your comment on mine and comment yours. Your comment first though:
Always remember that if you can't find five GOOD reasons to like someone, then, liking them is kind of childish. The dating game is only good for two things, practice and finding the real thing. Place both feet on the ground. Baby steps, always remember.
That is really all I can say since I don't have more information on what this guy is like...
And to respond to your commentary on my diary...
The situation I was placed in as a child makes me not able to tell my family. And no, it's not some lame excuse. If you ever want to hear about what was going on at the time, or the rest of my explanation...you can always get a hold of me in one way or another.
-Rose
[LeBibi]
2008-07-08 14:10:27

High School Crush

Wow.. That was a really long-time crush. I think our case is a bit similar. I had a crush on a boy when I was in eighth grade, I think. Before that, I disliked him for being a jerk. Long story short, he was sitting in front of me (the teacher changed the class arrangement). And so, we became friends.. close friends.. and soon I realised I had a crush on him. Somehow, the next year, we started to drift apart for no apparent reasons. I found out later that he began to smoke.. and then the next year I heard from a friend that he drinks and then smoke pot and god knows what else.

My point is, people change. Of course, some goes for a better change, but some would be worse and the rest doesn't change at all.. in many ways.

I can't offer you any advice for I myself fails Crying or Very sad. Do not let my case bring you down.. It is, in many ways, different from yours. So, I wish you all the best with the guy. Wink

[NinoChan]
2008-07-08 09:23:41

High School Crush Thankx for that, I will try and see where it takes us.[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-08 09:14:08

High School Crush

Thanks for the comment, and no it was never love, it was more of an experiment, that went no where, and I don't miss him, and I don't mind if he doesn't come back, I just wanted to know what was wrong and I did leave him alone for 2 weeks but then he never got better. Oh well, I guess I'll leave him alone.

But on your situation, It's tricky. It's interesting that these feelings never fully went away and came back so quickly, he could have changed over all this time and he might not even be the same person he was when you liked him before you graduated. But none the less you could like who he is now more.

I think you should ask him out when you're at his job sometime. See what he says. And as far as facebook is concerned, try not to do that. Telling him you have a crush on him through facebook only shows him that you can act like a highschooler and you're too shy to tell him to his face on the rare occasions that you do see him in person.

Hope this helps!

Zoey.

[Juicyzoester23]
2008-07-08 09:02:57

1 hour, 45 minutes, and 20 seconds It is and it is even more sad to believe that this actually happens to young girls, guys too[InquistiveOne7] 2008-07-08 08:42:05

1 hour, 45 minutes, and 20 seconds that...is...soo...sad!!!!!!!!!![bribubble] 2008-07-08 08:41:00

Secret Lover Whoa, Whoa, WHOOOOOAAAA

This is false {{Well ppl out there ARE doin this, but this DOES NOT imply to me}}

Thankx for your comment though[InquistiveOne7]
2008-07-07 11:11:30

Secret Lover

You have to ask yourself how you think his wife feels. How would she feel if she found out? How would ou feel if your husband did that to you? It is time to end the relationship.

As far as the incest...you need to seek counseling today. TODAY. You know better then to subject your kids to that. You would never do that to them would you? No, so therefore you know it is wrong. You KNOW it is wrong...that is why you won't let it keep happening. It is not ALL you know. You know siblings do not have sex with each other in a healthy family. You remember how you felt when you were raped by your father and uncle and brother. You can't say it was a nice feeling. And that is why you can not subject your kids to that. I don't care if you have to move away from your entire family..that'd be a good idea. You can't do this to your children.

 Every one sins, every one does some thing wrong...we all have our addictions and habits, so I can't judge you for your's. Even if your's was worse then some one else's, they still can not judge you because they know they do some thing that is not acceptable. People have a choice...every one has the option to stop their foolishness as you call it. It is time to change your's. You have already admitted that to yourself.

[caffeinefree]
2008-07-07 09:30:59

What Would You Do???

It doesn't matter wot I would do, everyone deals with trauma differently. (ftw, i would cut my self alot and drink alot and feel sorry for my self, then I would deal with it, put it to the back of my mind, if u read my diary ud understand my outlook on life)

If a friend came to you with this problem, what advice would you give, what would YOU tell THEM?

(Im assuming here it is actually you with the problem)

Shock, betrayal, confusion, anger? Initial feelings mean nothing next to explanations. If you can, ask him why he did this? He has no right, you have to show that you are the stronger person, yes, you are better than him.

Why you? Why not? it could be anyone. (I also believe, through being exceptional at science and maths (patterns), that there is so clearly something greater than our poxy rules and imaginations, there is something up there, hence why im saying this) God, or whatever, would not have chosen you if he did not think you could deal with it.

The natural desire for a good life is too strong for you to dwell on this. It is a horrible thing to happen, I would not wish it on my worst enemy, but do not let it destroy you, life is just too valuable. There's no need to be unhappy :( Its not fair on yourself.

sh*t happens? Thats a cop out answer, but its true. You are allowed to feel sad about this, just because no ones died and u have a roof over ur head doesnt mean you're not allowed to feel sad about the dice you've been rolled, please never feel ashamed of how u feel or what has happened.

life is just too precious to be wasted thinking of that c***, give urself the time and attention you need to get over this, im sorry it happened, but it has, and that can't be changed. The only thing that CAN be changed now is how YOU feel, and where your life goes from now. Please, Make the most of it. <3

[BlondeTradgedy]
2008-07-06 14:07:23


 
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